Dika appeared in the doorway, one-year-old Maya on his hip. “You okay?”

“Putting out the wrong fire,” he said. He led her to the bathroom, where he’d already run a cool bath—a miracle. He pointed to the baby monitor. “I’ve got the night watch. You have one hour. No curry, no crying, no being ‘Ibu.’”

Now, “Ibu Hot” meant the thermostat in the apartment was broken again, and she was nursing a baby in the sticky, 32-degree Celsius heat. It meant her temper flared like the curry fire—fast and hot over small things: a spilled milk bottle, a missing sock, Dika’s casual “what’s for dinner?”

“What are you doing?” she asked.