Letter — For Lobola Negotiations

Please let us know your decision through the bearer of this letter or by contacting the undersigned at the number below.

It has been our observation that [Groom’s First Name] and [Bride’s First Name] have come to know each other and wish to build a future together, with the blessing and support of both families. In keeping with our custom and tradition, we believe it is proper and respectful to approach you formally before any further steps are taken. letter for lobola negotiations

The Family of [Bride’s/Surname & Clan Name] c/o [Bride’s Father’s or Guardian’s Name] [Their Address/Village/Town] Please let us know your decision through the

[Your Physical Address or Village/Town Name] [Date] The Family of [Bride’s/Surname & Clan Name] c/o

We, the family of [Your Surname/Clan], extend our warmest and most respectful greetings to you and your entire household. We hope this letter finds you in good health and spirits.

We will come accompanied by our elders and a small delegation of family members, as custom dictates. We come in peace, with open hearts, and ready to listen and follow your family’s lead in these proceedings.