Stepmother Re-program <TRUSTED>
It sounds like you're looking for a structured, thoughtful plan to help a stepmother "re-program" — which I interpret as resetting her mindset, expectations, or role in the family, possibly after conflict, confusion, or feeling stuck.
“Let dad be dad. Let mom be mom. Let me be me.” stepmother re-program
“Their feelings are not my verdict.” It sounds like you're looking for a structured,