This guide is written with the assumption of good faith and respect. The best resource for any specific individual is always that individual themselves. The Trans Roommate Guide: Respect, Communication & Shared Space Part 1: Foundational Mindset Before discussing logistics, understand this: Your roommate’s trans identity is one aspect of their life, not the defining feature. They are a person who needs to sleep, study, eat, and deal with dirty dishes, just like you.